Comfort with Myself?

It seems to me a lot of the approach anxiety comes from a feeling that I, myself, and umcomfortable with myself. People will say how easy it is to tell when you don't look comfortable "in your own skin" and I agree, and I can tell when I'm not feeling comfortable in my own skin: it happens all the time, especially in crowded bars when I'm forced to run cold approaches.

What causes this? Is it some internal fear of rejection? Or is it something deeper? Maybe some internal hatred or lack of self-love? I'm not sure exactly what causes it, but I am going to fight it as much as I can. I'm watching Deep Inner Gaming all tomorrow with Indy, and then I'll probably read Total Self-Confidence and Feeling Good. I will get to the bottom of this! It's all about the inner gaming, baby.